Archive for February, 2007

the moving cheese, who i was and am now

Sunday, February 4th, 2007

a friend asked me to write a paper about a book, luckily that certain title has been in my archive for ages. sadly, i didnt have time to read it until just yesterday when i was obliged to. lots of ideas running in my head made me lose my way how to start with the paper.  i just asked my friend if she has any draft, from there i’ll just continue writing whatever. and so she did give me a copy of what she started, i just wrote on and on.

a book about being attached to something what youre used to do or have and losing it all of a sudden. the idea of moving on and stop crying over spilled milk. the halt to the dwelling of an old happiness lost. something to remind you whenever you feel sad of losing something or someone.

i had my share of experience, and i had it done in a difficult way.  i maybe like leave-and-i-dont-mind guy in terms of relationships right now but few years back, I was like the character Hem from the book "who moved my cheese?". took me a couple of years before i really learned to move on, stubborn you should say. but yeah, the impact of experience is far a better teacher than of reading it by paper… or probably im just saying it coz im more on the emotional side than the intellectual. so, if i read the book 1st then passed thru one of the worst experiences of my life, i wonder if i’d ever be that emo me lolz!